BEN F. VICK, JR.
The apostle John said, “No man hath seen God at any time; the only begotten Son, which is in the bosom of the Father, he hath declared him” (Jn. 1:18). God cannot be seen with the physical eye, but he can be seen through the eye of faith. The writer of Hebrews said of Moses, “By faith he forsook Egypt, not fearing the wrath of the king: for he endured, as seeing him who is invisible” (Heb. 11:27). From the pages of God’s word, we want to look at some characteristics of God as our father.
There is a sense in which God is the Father of all humanity. The prophet Malachi wrote, “Have we not all one father? Hath not one God created us? Why do we deal treacherously every man against his brother, by profaning the covenant of our fathers?” (Mal. 2:10). Because God created us—once miraculously in the case of Adam and Eve, but now through natural law, he is a Father of all men. But there is a special sense, a spiritual sense, in which only God’s spiritual children can call him “Father” (Gal. 4:5-6). One who has not been born again (Jn. 3:1-8) cannot call God “Father.” Jesus, in teaching his disciples how to pray, said to pray after this manner, “Our Father which art in heaven…” (Matt. 6:9).
We can learn from our Father in heaven as to the kind of fathers we need to be. Look at his dealings with his children and learn from him. It is natural for a son to want to take on the characteristics of his father; so, why should not Christian fathers strive to be like their Father in heaven? Jesus said, “Be ye therefore perfect, even as your Father which is in heaven is perfect” (Matt. 5:48).
Our father in heaven expressed and continues to express his love for his children. He demonstrated his love, not only in words, but in action. He told his children in the Old Testament that he loved them (Deut. 7:6-8). He has also told his children in the gospel age that he loves them (I Jn. 4:9,10,19; Jn. 3:16). The Father’s greatest demonstration of his love was in the sending of his only begotten Son to die for us (Rom. 5:6-8). Fathers today need to express their love for their children, not only in word, but in deed.
Our Father in heaven provides for his children. David, in the long ago, said, “I have been young, and now am old; yet have I not seen the righteous forsaken, nor his seed begging bread” (Psa. 37:25). Jesus promised that if we put the kingdom of God first, and his righteousness; then, the necessities of life will be added unto us. “But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you” (Matt. 6:33). James tells us, “Every good gift and every perfect gift is from above, and cometh down from the Father of lights, with whom is no variableness, neither shadow of turning” (Jas. 2:17). Though God sends material blessings to all, spiritual blessings are available only for the child of God. “Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, who hath blessed us with all spiritual blessings in heavenly places in Christ” (Eph. 1:3). Fathers today need to make provisions for their children’s needs.
Our Father in heaven has provided for our spiritual nourishment. In our Bibles we read that Jesus said, “It is written, Man shall not live by bread alone, but by every word that proceedeth out of the mouth of God” (Matt. 4:4). The Bible is food for the soul. The soul needs to be fed daily. Paul wrote,
“For which cause we faint not; but though our outward man perish, yet the inward man is renewed day by day” (II Cor. 4:16). Peter exhorted, “…As newborn babes, desire the sincere milk of the word, that ye may grow thereby: If so be ye have tasted that the Lord is gracious” (I Pet. 2:2-3).
Fathers, are you providing for the spiritual welfare of your children? Do they see you meditating upon the word of God? Do they hear you pray? Do they see you busy in the Lord’s vineyard? Do you take them to Bible classes and worship services? Do they go with you as you visit the sick or shut ins? Do they see Christ in you?
Our Father in heaven has time for his children. He is interested in our welfare. He wants us to express our hearts’ desires unto him. “Ask, and it shall be given unto you; seek, and ye shall find; knock, and it shall be opened unto you: For every one that asketh receiveth; and he that seeketh findeth; and to him that knocketh it shall be opened. Or what man is there of you, whom if his son ask bread, will he give him a stone? Or if he ask a fish, will he give him a serpent? If ye then, being evil, know how to give good gifts unto your children, how much more shall your Father which is in heaven give good things to them that ask him?” (Matt. 7:7-11). Fathers need to take time for their children. We need to listen to them. Why beget children into this world if one has no intention of caring for them?
Our Father in heaven encourages us in those things which are right by showing his approval in the Bible. But he discourages us in the things which are wrong by his disapproval as found in the Bible (Gal. 5:19-23). Fathers need to encourage their sons and daughters in righteous living and rebuke all unrighteous conduct (Tit. 2:11-12; Eph. 5:11). Why would a father want to encourage his son to sin? Yet, many do so by their own lives.
Our Father in heaven is faithful. “God is faithful, by whom ye were called into the fellowship of his Son Jesus Christ our lord” (I Cor. 1:9). “There hath no temptation taken you but such as is common to man: but God is faithful, who will not suffer you to be tempted above that ye are able; but will with the temptation also make a way to escape, that ye may be able to bear it” (I Cor. 10:13). God’s children can count upon him. He is trustworthy. He keeps his word. What he promises, he will fulfill. Children place all their trust upon their fathers. Oh! How disappointing some fathers are to their children. “Better it is that thou shouldest not vow, than that thou shouldest vow and not pay” (Ecc. 5:5).
Our Father in heaven commands all fathers, “And, ye fathers, provoke not your children to wrath: but bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord” (Eph. 6:4).